Monday, May 30, 2011

‘Family with Two Kids’…ham do hamare do… is the silent culprit behind female infanticides…major challenge in Mission save the Girl.

हम दो हमारे दो...The campaign of family planning program is successful due to mass campaign only…and majority of family have accepted two kids and also one kid family norm.
But along with it thought of two daughters or one daughter norm of family is beyond the mentality of society…rather they want first child as boy and then second as girl or boy.
Contrary if first child is girl then second child has to be boy…no girl at any cost…as they have adapted two child family norms…they can not take for third chance.
So by hook or crook after first female kid…second child has to be born should be boy only…so there is no choice apart from knowing the sex of infant and terminating infant if it is of female sex.
So unknowingly हम दो हमारे दो (Two Kids Family) has crated this cruelty of killing female infants…
Till the mentality of Family of one or two kids irrespective of boy or girl child will be well adapted by society…Mission Save the Girl will have to be continued.

Thursday, May 26, 2011

What should be the aim of Mission Save the Girl?


Aim should be to create volunteers motivated and devoted and willing to become good counselor irrespective of their education and social status.
Aim of the mission should be to involve all social organizations actively and effectively.
Aim of the mission should be to make it like war against mentality of social culprits.
Aim of the mission should be to reach the last person in society and to make him aware of sin of killing female infants before birth.
Aim should be to eradicate vanshacha diva वंशाचा दिवा... like mentality of society in Toto.

Monday, May 23, 2011

Who should lead this Mission?


When it comes to discussion on this issue…after discussion on mentality of society…vanshacha diva…(वंशाचा दिवा...) male dominance…female innocence…finally the finger is pointed out towards medical profession…Doctors doing prenatal diagnosis followed by termination of female fetus.
So to save nobility of our profession…Doctor should lead this Mission
But unfortunately Doctors are very reluctant on issue and not even acting as backstage also…keeping mum with out any comments.
This is very sad part of this Mission.
If Doctors not reacted in positive way in short time they may be treated as main culprit for decrease in female sex ratio.
So it is our sincere request to all persons in medical profession…Please come forward and leads the Mission.

Saturday, May 21, 2011

Practical approach to ‘Mission save the Girl’


Let us Be Practical


Without wasting time on theoretical discussion on the topic, we should all have to look for effective practical approach... To Save the Girl
During any activity related to Doctors or any health related program conducted for any age group of people in general…organizers should include activity of Mission Save a Girl…
Activity like...
1. Start with simple oath in local language…one simple format is given below
2. Then ask decided experienced person to give short talk on the importance of Mission Save a Girl.
3. With appeal to all to join Mission…this activity should be concluded in five minutes only.
4. Timing of this activity should be decided smartly so as to give effective impact.
5. Such activity ideally should not be as the last part of session except in the program related to same issue…or it may look like patch up typed…unrelated topic…and people are anxious to leave may not take the issue seriously.
We need more and more trial and error before coming to finalize the standard format…but why not to start just now as a trial.
We do many activities in such programs just for formalities irrespective of its meaning and importance…why not to include activity which is in real sense important.
People in general and all other non government organizations will also start similar activities followed by involvement of Government.
We should not wait till Government authority do it obligatory to do certain activity and then we are supposed to do as compulsion.
Media though taking concern of this issue will become more serious on the issue…and bombarding the message of this mission…through media will be the most effective weapon of this mission.
To summarize the campaign should be like dealing with crisis…as we all accept that girls if not saved now will be resulting into major social crisis very soon.

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Oath or Self Talk like activity should be the soul of Mission save the Girl.


Each and every individual…irrespective of age, educational standard or social status must be given this type of health periodically. Such oath should become like self talk like activity for majority of people…then only Mission Save the Girl…will be effective remarkably.
Here is one format of such oath…
I do respect the birth and presence of female.
I will not involve directly or indirectly in the act of female infanticide.
And I also prevent my relatives and friends from doing female infanticide.
I take such oath.
I do respect mother as a God.
In simple Marathi…

स्त्रीच्या जल्माचा व स्त्रीच्या अस्तित्वाचा मी आदर करतो

प्रत्यक्ष
किंवा अप्रत्यक्षरित्या स्त्रिभ्रून हत्येमधे माझा सहभाग असणार नाही


तसेच
माझे आप्त मित्र परिवार यांना स्त्रिभ्रून हत्येपासून परावृत्त करेन


अशी
मी शपथ घेतो.

मात्रु
देवो भव !!!!!