How can you kill me?

The foetus of female sex having risk of termination screamed when she realized this fact that her parents with the help of Doctors are gong to terminate her life.

She shouted…Mom…Dad…Listen to me…

The Doctor who has done Sonography and opened door of death to me was unknown to me…and for that sonologist I was nobody.

The obstetrician to which you both took me to get termination of my life was aware that I am a female…How can that Doctor be so cruel to accept this responsibility…Does that Doctor do not having any daughter, sister or mother in her life?

For Both these Doctors I was nobody but for both you I was your blood, part of your tissue…Then also how can you decided to throw me in well of death?

जब गर्भ को ये पता चला की वो एक लड़की हैं...और ईसलीये उसकी जिंदगी को खतरा हैं...तो वो डर के मारे चीख उठी.

वो चिल्लाई...ममी...डयाडी...मेरी बात सुनो...
सोनोग्राफी करनेवाले डॉक्टरने...मेरी मौत का दरवाजा खोला...
वो सोनोग्राफी करनेवाला डॉक्टर मेरा कौन था?... कोई नहीं था.
जिस डॉक्टर ने मुझे ख़त्म करने की ढाणी...वो इतना निर्दयी और जालीम कैसे हो सकता हैं?... क्या उसके घर में बेटी, बेहन, माँ नहीं हैं?
चलो छोड़ो...ईन दो डॉक्टर के लीये मैं कौन थी? ...कोई नहीं...मैं उनकी क्या लगती थी?....कोई नहीं.
लेकिन आप तो मेरे अपने थे...मैं तो तुम्हारे कलेजे की टुकड़ी थी...तो फिर तुमने कैसे मुझे मौत के कूवेंमें धकलनेका मन बना लिया?...
एक पल के लीये भी नहीं सोचा?

This was the emotional imaginary dialogues shared by one of our friends from ‘Mission save the Girl’     

These things can be very well utilized for counseling of people with old traditional minds.

Jab garb ko ye pata chal ki wo ek ladaki hain aur usaki jindagi ko dhoka hain…to wo dar se chila uthi. Wo chilayi…Sonography karanewale doctor ne meri maut ka darwaja khola…Sonography karanewala doctor mera kauntha? Koyi nahi tha. Jis doctor ne mujhe khatm karane ki jimewari li…wo itna nishtur kaise ho sakata hain? Kya uske ghar me beti , behan , ma nahi hain? Ye dono doctoronke liye main kaun thi? Koyi

स्त्रीभ्रुण हत्या करणारा कळवा आणि एक करोड रुपये मिळावा..Inform the name of a person doing female feticide and get reward worth rupees 1 karod (10Million)

‘Inform person suffering from small pox and get worth rupees one lakh’…This was the announcement made by Government of India forty years back. Now a valuation of that amount is defiantly more than a karod.

If the slogan like ‘award of attractive amount to a person who will inform the names of persons planning to have prenatal foetal sex determinations aiming to have a boy’…Will it work in favor of mission save the girl?

One should think on such things…how effectively can it work?

The only problem here is small pox was the disease which could be detected easily but to find the culprit person involving in killing female foetus are difficult to identify.

But the way by which the cases of corruption are handled…these things can also be easily trapped by investigation burrow if some one from society comes forward to give such information to an authority.  

This was the opinion of one dashing personality from ‘Mission save the Girl’.

देवीच्या रोग्याची माहिती देईल त्याला जर एक लाख रुपये बक्षीस होते...तर स्त्री भ्रुण हत्या रोखण्यासाठी बक्षीस का असू नये?

कोणी सांगितलय, एखादे प्रामाणिक डॉक्टर सुद्धा रुग्णाच्या नातेवाईकांचे नाव सांगून असे बक्षीस मिळवेल.

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स्त्रीभ्रुण हत्या करणारे डॉक्टर देव होते...Doctors involved in Female feticides were God.

Due to PNDT act and awareness of it to majority of Doctors…Prenatal sex determination by Sonography is almost extinct.

The couple having strong belief in concept of family tree…vanshacha diva…was used to finds a center of Sonography doing prenatal sex determination. In case of female foetus, they also used to find a MTP center to terminate female foetus.

For such couples money was not the matter…and Doctors helping them were God for them.

And surprising thing was that these Doctors were also proud to be called as God.

This is the observation of our senior Family Physician Doctor friend.

When people will ban the Doctors involved in prenatal sex determinations…Then only there will be some hope to Mission save the Girl...He added.

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बेटी बचावो...बात करना आसन हैं...Easy to Talk on Save the Girl

For persons having one of the issues as a boy it is very easy to talk on the need to implement the Mission save the girl child…but what about the couples having one or two girls and keen to have a boy?

For persons who do not believe in old tradition of family tree it is acceptable to have one or two daughter…but what about old traditional minded people?

Is there any person who can find a better solution for such peoples?

It is easy to talk on issue for who has finished their reproductive life…

But what about newly married couples? They want first baby as Male…

The efforts should be done to enter in to minds and hearts of people to see what their mentality and emotions are and what are the reasons behind such mentality and emotions…And then only one can step rightly forward towards changing old traditional minds…so as to save girls in India.

Just to give speech is easy but to work at ground level is difficult task.

This was the comments made by one of our members from ‘Mission save the Girl’ on mentality of society in India.

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मुलीची काळजी घेतली जाते...Girls are cared in India.

Couple cared preterm low birth female newborn.

In recent days…A preterm low birth weight girl child (newborn) was shifted for intensive care to a pediatrician.

Due to low birth weight the child has to be kept for more than ten days in incubator.

This was the first issue to couple.

The parents took complete efforts to save a girl baby by arranging finance irrespective of their middle economical class.

This was nice experience shared by our Doctor.  

मुलगी वाचवा अभियान श्री व सौ पाटील यांचे हार्दिक अभिनंदन करते...

‘Mission save the Girl’ admires...Jayashree & Vaibhav Patil (Khopoli - Maharashtra)…And gives Best wishes to baby Girl ‘Shreyashi’.

Mr & Mrs Patil will never think of selecting sex of second issue…Male or female…They will accept it…We are optimistic on Mission save the girl.

(There are may be few such cases in past also but we are highlighted this case to slap the mentality of people aborting female fetus.)

Love and affection of parents and relatives towards first female child indicates that the ‘Mission Save a Girl’ will have to be discontinued in short period. 

अवास्तव महत्व नको...Unnecessary shout on save the Girl child in India.

Today all society is demoralized. All people are money oriented facing deadly competition. Computerization has changed the sentiments of peoples. . .

In India there are so many problems like…corruption, black money, dowry, suicides, poverty, various types of crimes.

Among many problems there is very little attention on decreased female sex ratio.

Rather it is neglected issue by general people at present.

If no one is able to find solution to any of the above problem…why is to worry on decreased female sex ratio?

If no one can ban things like alcohol or tobacco…Why unnecessary shout on save a Girl?

Let the people choose what is better for them.

People them selves will find solution to their problem when they will realize severity of it.

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Don’t Kill Female Foetus…स्त्री भ्रूण हत्या करू नका...Campaign should be made active step by step.

Counseling is the only effective method in Mission save the Girl campaign.

At Level One…Sonologist and Obstetricians should be called for panel discussion like activity by local authority.

Main task should be counseling of Doctors on necessity of stopping prenatal sex determination on human ground followed by provision of act. There should be open discussion so as to know the problems of Doctors also.

Only act will not suffice…Doctors should be treated as the leaders in Mission save the Girl campaign…Rather Doctors should be motivated to inform the name of couples likely going for prenatal sex determination.

On second level all rest of the Doctors and on third level rest of the paramedical staff should be covered in same manner.

This activity should be done on monthly basis till complete awareness in society.

This was the final conclusion of our team on Practical approach to Mission save the Campaign till the date.

वंशाचा दिवा हवाच हा हठ्ठहास का?...Boy is must…No to Girl.

एका मुली नंतर मुलगाच पाहिजे...नाही तर प्रेताला कोण अग्नी देईल ?....पिंडदान कोण करेल?

मेल्यानंतर चितेला अग्नी द्यायला मुलगा हवा...आणि जिवंत स्त्री गर्भाचा जन्मापूर्वी अंत करत आहात त्याचे काय?
पहिल्या मुलावर परत मुलगाच झाला तर चालतो...मुलगी अजिबात नसली तरी  चालेल...

कन्यादानाचे पुण्य मिळणार नाही...हे ते सोयीस्कररित्या विसरतात.

Old traditional belief has hypnotized mine of majority of people so strong that it is very difficult to change their thinking easily.

Need is to work on ground level

स्त्री भ्रुण हत्या रोखण्यास देव देखील हतबल झाले...God has also no role in prevention of female foeticides.

On one hand number of people visiting pilgrimage is increasing day by day and on other hand humanity of society is vanishing fast.

Many people visit God with intention to have Boy as coming or present  issue…And simultaneously visit Doctor for prenatal sex determination and make their mind for termination of pregnancy if foetus is of sex female.

अजून ही काही जुन्या विचारांचे लोक देवाला नवस बोलतात...मुलगाच होऊ दे म्हणून साकडे घालतात.

आणि थोडे स्वताला पुढारलेले शिक्षित लोक देवस्थानाला भेट देतात आणि नंतर सोनोग्राफीसाठी डॉक्टर शोधतात.

देवाला पाया पडून स्त्री भ्रुण हत्येसारखे कृत्य करत असलेल्या लोकांना म्हणावे तरी काय? 

मनाचा शोध...Need to find minds killing female feotus.

Sonography is the first weapon by which the real act of murder of female feotus starts.

To target Sonography centers is okay but it is like the choosing the short cut way in Mission save the Girl campaign.

Basic need is to find the master minds behind this criminal offense…which is provoking minds of innocent to choose the option of prenatal sex determination.

Need also is to find the minds of money oriented Doctors doing illegal and unethical practice of prenatal sex determination.

Are these people requires counseling by well known psychologist?

Will the thoughts of socially devoted persons help to change such minds?

लाचलुचपतीच्या विळख्यात अडकलेल्या भ्रष्ट समाज व्यवस्थेत...इनटरनेट च्या ह्या जगात...मनाचा शोध...ही एक कवी कल्पना तर राहिली नाही ना?