Doctors should be treated like leaders in mission save the Girl child in India.

The first person to whom the newly married couple consults is a doctor…The first person who can play a role of counselor to save girl in India is a doctor…And so without involvement of doctors…Mission save the girl child has no bright future.

How can one forget that medical profession has played the key role to promote two kids family norms in society. How one can neglect the ongoing efforts of nursing staff for promoting eligible couple for family planning operation and for all various family planning activities.

Is it not sad to try…and to find the solution to social and health related issue with out the help of health related person in society?

This was the remark made by a dedicated senior Doctor from Mission save the Girl.

Exceptionally few sonologist and obstetricians were involved in prenatal sex determination and female foetal termination and due to this reason the whole medical profession is being targeted and treated like professional culprits…This is just unfair…He added.

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How can you kill me?

The foetus of female sex having risk of termination screamed when she realized this fact that her parents with the help of Doctors are gong to terminate her life.

She shouted…Mom…Dad…Listen to me…

The Doctor who has done Sonography and opened door of death to me was unknown to me…and for that sonologist I was nobody.

The obstetrician to which you both took me to get termination of my life was aware that I am a female…How can that Doctor be so cruel to accept this responsibility…Does that Doctor do not having any daughter, sister or mother in her life?

For Both these Doctors I was nobody but for both you I was your blood, part of your tissue…Then also how can you decided to throw me in well of death?

जब गर्भ को ये पता चला की वो एक लड़की हैं...और ईसलीये उसकी जिंदगी को खतरा हैं...तो वो डर के मारे चीख उठी.

वो चिल्लाई...ममी...डयाडी...मेरी बात सुनो...
सोनोग्राफी करनेवाले डॉक्टरने...मेरी मौत का दरवाजा खोला...
वो सोनोग्राफी करनेवाला डॉक्टर मेरा कौन था?... कोई नहीं था.
जिस डॉक्टर ने मुझे ख़त्म करने की ढाणी...वो इतना निर्दयी और जालीम कैसे हो सकता हैं?... क्या उसके घर में बेटी, बेहन, माँ नहीं हैं?
चलो छोड़ो...ईन दो डॉक्टर के लीये मैं कौन थी? ...कोई नहीं...मैं उनकी क्या लगती थी?....कोई नहीं.
लेकिन आप तो मेरे अपने थे...मैं तो तुम्हारे कलेजे की टुकड़ी थी...तो फिर तुमने कैसे मुझे मौत के कूवेंमें धकलनेका मन बना लिया?...
एक पल के लीये भी नहीं सोचा?

This was the emotional imaginary dialogues shared by one of our friends from ‘Mission save the Girl’     

These things can be very well utilized for counseling of people with old traditional minds.

Jab garb ko ye pata chal ki wo ek ladaki hain aur usaki jindagi ko dhoka hain…to wo dar se chila uthi. Wo chilayi…Sonography karanewale doctor ne meri maut ka darwaja khola…Sonography karanewala doctor mera kauntha? Koyi nahi tha. Jis doctor ne mujhe khatm karane ki jimewari li…wo itna nishtur kaise ho sakata hain? Kya uske ghar me beti , behan , ma nahi hain? Ye dono doctoronke liye main kaun thi? Koyi

स्त्रीभ्रुण हत्या करणारा कळवा आणि एक करोड रुपये मिळावा..Inform the name of a person doing female feticide and get reward worth rupees 1 karod (10Million)

‘Inform person suffering from small pox and get worth rupees one lakh’…This was the announcement made by Government of India forty years back. Now a valuation of that amount is defiantly more than a karod.

If the slogan like ‘award of attractive amount to a person who will inform the names of persons planning to have prenatal foetal sex determinations aiming to have a boy’…Will it work in favor of mission save the girl?

One should think on such things…how effectively can it work?

The only problem here is small pox was the disease which could be detected easily but to find the culprit person involving in killing female foetus are difficult to identify.

But the way by which the cases of corruption are handled…these things can also be easily trapped by investigation burrow if some one from society comes forward to give such information to an authority.  

This was the opinion of one dashing personality from ‘Mission save the Girl’.

देवीच्या रोग्याची माहिती देईल त्याला जर एक लाख रुपये बक्षीस होते...तर स्त्री भ्रुण हत्या रोखण्यासाठी बक्षीस का असू नये?

कोणी सांगितलय, एखादे प्रामाणिक डॉक्टर सुद्धा रुग्णाच्या नातेवाईकांचे नाव सांगून असे बक्षीस मिळवेल.

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स्त्रीभ्रुण हत्या करणारे डॉक्टर देव होते...Doctors involved in Female feticides were God.

Due to PNDT act and awareness of it to majority of Doctors…Prenatal sex determination by Sonography is almost extinct.

The couple having strong belief in concept of family tree…vanshacha diva…was used to finds a center of Sonography doing prenatal sex determination. In case of female foetus, they also used to find a MTP center to terminate female foetus.

For such couples money was not the matter…and Doctors helping them were God for them.

And surprising thing was that these Doctors were also proud to be called as God.

This is the observation of our senior Family Physician Doctor friend.

When people will ban the Doctors involved in prenatal sex determinations…Then only there will be some hope to Mission save the Girl...He added.

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बेटी बचावो...बात करना आसन हैं...Easy to Talk on Save the Girl

For persons having one of the issues as a boy it is very easy to talk on the need to implement the Mission save the girl child…but what about the couples having one or two girls and keen to have a boy?

For persons who do not believe in old tradition of family tree it is acceptable to have one or two daughter…but what about old traditional minded people?

Is there any person who can find a better solution for such peoples?

It is easy to talk on issue for who has finished their reproductive life…

But what about newly married couples? They want first baby as Male…

The efforts should be done to enter in to minds and hearts of people to see what their mentality and emotions are and what are the reasons behind such mentality and emotions…And then only one can step rightly forward towards changing old traditional minds…so as to save girls in India.

Just to give speech is easy but to work at ground level is difficult task.

This was the comments made by one of our members from ‘Mission save the Girl’ on mentality of society in India.

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मुलीची काळजी घेतली जाते...Girls are cared in India.

Couple cared preterm low birth female newborn.

In recent days…A preterm low birth weight girl child (newborn) was shifted for intensive care to a pediatrician.

Due to low birth weight the child has to be kept for more than ten days in incubator.

This was the first issue to couple.

The parents took complete efforts to save a girl baby by arranging finance irrespective of their middle economical class.

This was nice experience shared by our Doctor.  

मुलगी वाचवा अभियान श्री व सौ पाटील यांचे हार्दिक अभिनंदन करते...

‘Mission save the Girl’ admires...Jayashree & Vaibhav Patil (Khopoli - Maharashtra)…And gives Best wishes to baby Girl ‘Shreyashi’.

Mr & Mrs Patil will never think of selecting sex of second issue…Male or female…They will accept it…We are optimistic on Mission save the girl.

(There are may be few such cases in past also but we are highlighted this case to slap the mentality of people aborting female fetus.)

Love and affection of parents and relatives towards first female child indicates that the ‘Mission Save a Girl’ will have to be discontinued in short period. 

अवास्तव महत्व नको...Unnecessary shout on save the Girl child in India.

Today all society is demoralized. All people are money oriented facing deadly competition. Computerization has changed the sentiments of peoples. . .

In India there are so many problems like…corruption, black money, dowry, suicides, poverty, various types of crimes.

Among many problems there is very little attention on decreased female sex ratio.

Rather it is neglected issue by general people at present.

If no one is able to find solution to any of the above problem…why is to worry on decreased female sex ratio?

If no one can ban things like alcohol or tobacco…Why unnecessary shout on save a Girl?

Let the people choose what is better for them.

People them selves will find solution to their problem when they will realize severity of it.

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Don’t Kill Female Foetus…स्त्री भ्रूण हत्या करू नका...Campaign should be made active step by step.

Counseling is the only effective method in Mission save the Girl campaign.

At Level One…Sonologist and Obstetricians should be called for panel discussion like activity by local authority.

Main task should be counseling of Doctors on necessity of stopping prenatal sex determination on human ground followed by provision of act. There should be open discussion so as to know the problems of Doctors also.

Only act will not suffice…Doctors should be treated as the leaders in Mission save the Girl campaign…Rather Doctors should be motivated to inform the name of couples likely going for prenatal sex determination.

On second level all rest of the Doctors and on third level rest of the paramedical staff should be covered in same manner.

This activity should be done on monthly basis till complete awareness in society.

This was the final conclusion of our team on Practical approach to Mission save the Campaign till the date.

वंशाचा दिवा हवाच हा हठ्ठहास का?...Boy is must…No to Girl.

एका मुली नंतर मुलगाच पाहिजे...नाही तर प्रेताला कोण अग्नी देईल ?....पिंडदान कोण करेल?

मेल्यानंतर चितेला अग्नी द्यायला मुलगा हवा...आणि जिवंत स्त्री गर्भाचा जन्मापूर्वी अंत करत आहात त्याचे काय?
पहिल्या मुलावर परत मुलगाच झाला तर चालतो...मुलगी अजिबात नसली तरी  चालेल...

कन्यादानाचे पुण्य मिळणार नाही...हे ते सोयीस्कररित्या विसरतात.

Old traditional belief has hypnotized mine of majority of people so strong that it is very difficult to change their thinking easily.

Need is to work on ground level

स्त्री भ्रुण हत्या रोखण्यास देव देखील हतबल झाले...God has also no role in prevention of female foeticides.

On one hand number of people visiting pilgrimage is increasing day by day and on other hand humanity of society is vanishing fast.

Many people visit God with intention to have Boy as coming or present  issue…And simultaneously visit Doctor for prenatal sex determination and make their mind for termination of pregnancy if foetus is of sex female.

अजून ही काही जुन्या विचारांचे लोक देवाला नवस बोलतात...मुलगाच होऊ दे म्हणून साकडे घालतात.

आणि थोडे स्वताला पुढारलेले शिक्षित लोक देवस्थानाला भेट देतात आणि नंतर सोनोग्राफीसाठी डॉक्टर शोधतात.

देवाला पाया पडून स्त्री भ्रुण हत्येसारखे कृत्य करत असलेल्या लोकांना म्हणावे तरी काय? 

मनाचा शोध...Need to find minds killing female feotus.

Sonography is the first weapon by which the real act of murder of female feotus starts.

To target Sonography centers is okay but it is like the choosing the short cut way in Mission save the Girl campaign.

Basic need is to find the master minds behind this criminal offense…which is provoking minds of innocent to choose the option of prenatal sex determination.

Need also is to find the minds of money oriented Doctors doing illegal and unethical practice of prenatal sex determination.

Are these people requires counseling by well known psychologist?

Will the thoughts of socially devoted persons help to change such minds?

लाचलुचपतीच्या विळख्यात अडकलेल्या भ्रष्ट समाज व्यवस्थेत...इनटरनेट च्या ह्या जगात...मनाचा शोध...ही एक कवी कल्पना तर राहिली नाही ना?

No Tele film on Mission save the Girl…Such Campaign is must.

Till today there is no brief advertisement or no any film on campaign of Mission save a Girl by any TV channel.

No single TV channel has come with such type of activity till the date…except occasional inclusion on National channel.

National channel broadcasts advertisement of family planning program and agriculture products in between news…but the real need is do campaign of Mission save the Girl.

To include small clip on Mission save the Girl through television media will be the one of the effective ways to prevent targeted Female foeticide in India.

काही न्यूज च्यानल्स ग्रहण, राशी, भविष्य ह्या विषयांवर बराच वेळ वाया घालवत आहेत...पण मुलगी वाचवा अभियानाकडे त्यांचा काना डोळा आहे...हे असे का?

Controversies are not good for Mission save the Girl Campaign.

Recently there was news regarding threat by radiologist to stop doing obstetric Sonography if Government does not stop to harass them on various grounds.

It is the fact that few Sonography centers are banned on account of lacunae in keeping records recently. The truth is that this action is according to PNDT act which is known to all sonologist.

So where is the question of wrong action?

Sonologist have to keep all records in prescribed manner. No excuse on that account.

The point raised by radiologist of having more Obstetrician doing Sonography is just unfair…as emergency obstetric Sonography can save the life of foetus and mother also.

And for emergency obstetrics Radiologists are not helpful except in few Institutes where they are available round the clock.

Main surprising fact is that when Sonography was newly introduced to medical profession, it was made available to Obstetricians before Radiologist in many Government Big Institutions.

This was remark of our senior obstetrician friend.

Any type of such controversial issue should be avoided and should be solved by discussion with proper authorities as Controversies are bad for progress of Mission save the Girl Campaign.

स्त्री भ्रुण हत्या कायदाच रोखू शकतो...Law only will prevent female foeticide in India.

सतीची चाल ही  द्रुष्ट प्रथा बंद व्हावी म्हणून जनजागृती करण्याचे थोर काम अनेक समाजसेवकांनी केले पण सतीची चाल ही कायद्याच्या बडग्यानेच बंद झाली.  

And on that historical aspect one can draw a conclusion that irrespective of social awareness campaign…Female foeticide will be stopped by Law and its implementation.

But the sad part of it is that Government authority is targeting only Doctors…Why the relatives accompanied are unnoticed?

News of red and seal on particular Sonography centers is darkly highlighted by media…But…Why the news of provisional arrest of accompanied persons has not published till the date…Because such things do not takes place…nor the efforts to do so are taken till the date.

This was the opinion of our Senior Doctor friend.

Well educated people are not behind in killing female foetus before birth.

Does education and modernization teach us to become inhumane?

People from all class of society are anxious to get prenatal sex determination after first female issue…poor withdraws their mind due to expenses…Middle social economical people manages to arrange money and so called modern…highly qualified…mostly are the people choosing option to go for prenatal sex determination and having no problem to destroy female foetus before the birth with ease.

The sad part is that well educated people also not behind in performing such criminal offence.

One senior social worker threw light on the facts.

शिक्षणाचा व सुसंकृत असण्याचा तसा काही संबध नाही हे पुन्हा एकदा सिद्ध झाले आहे.

F M रेडिओ पे बेटी बचाव आन्दोलन की शुरुवात...Campaign to Save the Girl is active on FM radio.

All the Doctors including who are running Sonography centers are aware of provision of a punishable law since last ten years…Has it helped to minimize the female foetal loss?

The honest answer is…No.

On FM radio the short advertisement is being broadcasted…now days… Highlighting the provision of punishable prenatal sex determination law.(PNDT act)

The publicity of act and provision of punishment for the person doing or involved in prenatal sex determination are the main impacts of such advertisements.

But…Will the people respond to such advertisements?

Here the answer is…Yes.

More than ninety percent of people now a day are used to hear FM in car.

Constant bombarding of this advertisement all the time will work on long term basis…And this will be proved as the right way towards campaign of Mission save the Girl

जन जागृती हा मुलगी वाचवा अभियानाचा पाया आहे....कायद्याची अंमल बजावणी करण्यात अडचणी येत असताना...जन जागृती सारखा चांगला पर्याय नाही.

Ban all private Sonography & MTP centers…सर्व खाजगी सोनोग्राफी व गर्भपात केंद्र बंद करा.

Thirty years back when there were no Sonography facility available…Obstetrician were judging the condition of their patients by their clinical skill.

Now this facility is provoking inhume nature in innocent people and money minded Doctors…

Then why not to ban private Sonography centers?

Sonography & MTP centers should be made available in Government set ups only.

If Government promises to run Sonography & MTP centers effectively with out interruptions and with adequate staff…and also see to that these centers will be in functioning conditions through out…for twenty four hours a day…Then no one should have objection.

Private Doctors have option to refer their patients for Sonography and for medical termination of pregnancy to such centers.

With an eye on such centers Government authority can effectively prevent prenatal sex determination and targeted termination of female feotus.

This is the suggestion of our honest Obstetrician friend.

I can not see the havoc created by Sonography machines…and I am willing to sacrifice any thing to prevent this…He added.

हव्यातच कशाला खाजगी सोनोग्राफी व गर्भपात केंद्र?

बंद करा सर्व...

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संवाद साधा...Talk to them

Person who believes in Mission save the Girl should talk to at least one or two persons in society on this subject.

In India we never promote violence in any manner…One never kills even an ant with out reason…and you are deciding to kill female feotus. This thing is nothing but a sin…and you should not do it.

Why we are loosing our morals?

Due to belief of old traditions…In intention to have family tree intact…You are terminating a female baby before her birth is the thing unexplainable by any angle.

Why we people are forgetting our manners?

One can have a dialog in decent but with direct intentions…This is what one of active member does…and also advises to do.

दर दिवशी किमान एक दोन व्यक्तीशी संवाद साधने आवश्यक आहे.

भारत हा अहिंसावादी देश आहे...कारण नसताना आपण साधी एक मुंगी देखील मारत नाही आणि तुम्ही मुलगी मारायला निघालात? कुठे फेडाल हे पाप?
कृपा करून हे पाप करू नका आणि दुसर्र्या कोणाला करू देवू नका.
वंशाचा दिवा...वंशाच्या दिवा...म्हणता...आणि उद्या जर त्या वंशाच्या दिव्याला तुमचे हे पाप कळले तर त्याला काय वाटेल? तो तुम्हाला कदापि माफ करणार नाही.

स्पष्ट शब्दात व विषयाला सरळ हात घालून बोलणे महत्वाचे आहे. मुलगी वाचवा अभियानातील एका बुजुर्ग व्यक्तीचे हे मत आहे.

बेटी के गर्भ के जनम को रोखनेवालोंके कानोमे ये बात कह दो...के जिस जिस ने भी जिस बेटे के लिए ये पाप किया हैं...वो ही बेटा कल कहेगा...मेरे मम्मी पापा खुनी हैं...
आपके लाडले के दिमागमे ये बात हमेशा के लिए जहर बन कर रह जाएगी...
ज़रा सोचो...

लड़का लड़की...कुछ भी चलेगा...उपरवाले की देन हैं...Will religious aspect will help to increase female sex ratio?

People who are religious and do not believe in unnecessary termination of foetus…ever thinks to select sex of foetus…male or female. They rather accept what may be the newborn…male or female.

काही धार्मिक लोक मुलगा मुलगी हा भेद न मानता जे आहे त्याचा आनंदाने स्वीकार करतात...

Contrary to this people of some other religion smartly do not think on issue…Do not take the act of killing female foetus as sin…Do not think what God must be thinking on their inhuman termination of  pregnancy of unwanted female feotus.

Are these people do this criminal act of killing female foetus after consent of their religious teacher?

This is the clear cut opinion of one of our members from mission.

स्वताला धार्मिक समजणारे हे लोक धर्म गुरुंच्या परवानगीने किंवा धर्मात सांगितले आहे म्हणून स्त्री भ्रूण हत्या करत आहेत का?

ह्या लोकांच्या धर्मगुरुने स्त्री भ्रूण हत्येला मूक संमती दिली आहे का? 

या सर्व बाबींचा छडा लावला पाहिजे.

हे आमच्या एक सच्चा मित्राचे परखड मत आहे.

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बेटी बचावो...आज की जरुरत हैं...Mission save the Girl is today’s necessity…Not of tomorrow

Is it really so serious to keep on talking on likely future crisis if the ‘Mission save the Girl’ not implemented effectively?

Forget the likely social crisis in future… Today we are already in social crisis. Don’t we agree that?

Talking on the current issue of female feticides…What the society is doing is nothing but mass murder like thing…majority of minds are killing the unborn female girls in utero.

So need is to prevent and stop this crime on an emergency basis with our thinking what will happen in future.

दहा विस वर्षानी नवरदेवाला नवरी सापडणार नाही...सामजिक अराजकता माजेल...म्हणून मुली वाचावा...हा विचार थोडा चुकीचा आहे.

आता काय कमी अराजकता आहे...आता मुलीचा गर्भ मारला जातोय हे काही कमी दुषकृत्य आहे?

स्त्री भ्रूण ह्त्या हे अमानुष दुषकृत्य आहे आणि ते बंद व्ह्यायल्या हवे.

बेटी बचाना आज की आज के लिए जरुरत हैं...ना की कल के लिए...कल किसने देखा हैं?

So Mission save the Girl should be today’s mission for Today and not for future.

मुलगी नको...मुलगाच हवा...Want a male child…Not by chance then there is no choice…Mentality is speed breaker to Mission save the girl

Ten years back a female patient visited clinic. She had two female children and pregnant for third time…And relatives were keen to have male child this time.

This time couple had no option except for selection of sex of new coming fetus…She gone to her native city place and what was happened was not known.

After few years when she visited the clinic she was with a Boy child.

This was the experience of our Doctor friend.

There must be few more such type of cases in past.

डॉक्टर, सासु फार त्रास देते...सारख टोचून बोलते...आता मुलगाच वाहला हवा...नहीं तर नवरा घराबाहेर काढेल...मुलगा झाला नाही तर माझे काही खरं नाही...

स्त्री रुग्नाचे असे बोल डॉक्टराना भावना विवश करतात...

Now the story is different…Now days few couple are choosing such options even after first female child as they are ashamed of having family of more than two kids.

Demand for prenatal sex detection is increased remarkably…And demand for termination of female fetus has increased ultimately…No one can deny this fact.

Such needy people approaches Doctor and…Blackmails the Doctor emotionally.

They are often ready to pay a good amount for this criminal offense.

This is what one of our senior Doctor’s comment on this issue.

डॉक्टर, आमच्या घराण्यात मुलगा नाही...तुम्हीच आम्हाला मार्ग दाखवा...तुम्ही आमचे फॅमिली डॉक्टर...तुम्ही मदत नाही केली तर आम्ही कोठे जाणार?

ही अशी भाषा डॉक्टराना हलवून टाकतेय...

These all things are harassing an honest Doctor…But these people have no option…No choice.

So to conclude…If no first male baby by a chance…Then there are no any choice lefts.

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No need to get panic on the today’s status of decreasing female sex ratio?

In Male dominant society today females have lost their importance. This is being proved by mentality of society as ratio of female sex kids is decreasing remarkably.

In ancient days during some time there was Female dominance in society…मात्रुसत्ताक…and after some period it turned to Male dominant society…पितृसत्ताक...

Who knows if the current social crime continues it may again turn to Female dominant society in India as less female population will be resulted into demand of female and thus may increase her importance and thus her dominance over male population will be ultimate…irrespective of their less numbers.

Society all the time goes on facing some type of crisis and the so called clever people unnecessarily starts worrying and working on issues.

So Relax…Cool…

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समाज प्रबोधन करणारी संस्था वारी मधे 'मुलगी वाचवा' अभियान राबवनार...‘Save the Girl’ Campaign.

Social organization in Pune (Maharashtra) is going to conduct a program on ‘Save a Girl’ during procession from Alandi to Pandharpur…

संत ज्ञानेश्वर यांच्या पंढरपुर वारीत पुणे येथील समाज प्रबोधन करणारी संस्था करत असलेले हे कार्य प्रसवंशेस पात्र आहे...

But this mission should be result oriented…

We are sorry to say that people believing in God…doing all holy activity are having strong old traditional minded (moralistic)with exception to few…So it is needed that these people should get periodic counseling.

Worshiping God and Godly behavior are two different things…so activities during such procession is really appreciable.

देव देव करणारे लोक आता पूर्वी सारखे कर्मठ राहिलेले नाहीत...ही आशादायी बाब आहे.

The Social organizations are coming forward in such Missions is good green blinking sign.

Are the cases of Female Feticide (killing female fetus) in India preventable?

Not by disease or illness…but female fetuses are at risk in India

Since last 15/16 years the misuse of Sonography is being practiced by few Doctors in India…and the new entity of Female feticides has been slowly entered in health issues in India.

Health organizations does active programming for prevention and eradication of endemic diseases…but this Female Feticide which has been converted into a condition like a mental illness and really challenging to prevent or cure.

Unfortunately widely used methods of termination of early pregnancy for purpose of spacing the next issue by abortion pills or by surgical methods of terminations are well accepted by Indian society.

So mind set here is one can terminate unwanted pregnancy by easy and legal ways.

And when the birth of boy becomes the need of family the pregnancy with female fetus becomes an unwanted pregnancy and parents goes to select and choose male fetus or terminate female fetus.

In society which has strong belief in family tree वंशाचा दिवा…it is the challenging to Save Girl.

Activation of Mission save the Girl can only prevent female feticides in India.

Very Few Doctors don’t feel guilty…for killing female fetus…in India.

Since till the age of 20 weeks the fetus is not a viable…So terminating or in clear words killing such fetus is routine method even also for spacing the birth of second child is concerned.
The main problem here is the termination of pregnancy till 20th weeks on the ground of medical and specified reasons in India is called as legal termination of pregnancy (MTP)
So for Qualified Medical Professional person also it has become easy to terminate the pregnancy of fetus demanded by parents by their request and by their consent with out keeping any record of it.
The medical professional person do not even think as far as ethics or legal factor is concerned…rather he has mentality is as if by favoring the needy couple he has served his profession…and he feels proud for his job…no question of any guilty feelings.
And exceptionally few may be doing such inhumane act just for money but there he may not be a qualified Doctor.
In short one may draw a simple but false conclusion that the people from medical field are indirectly and innocently involved in such activity and rather main culprit is the mentality of society as such.

Silent Observers are equally guilty as persons involved in female Feticides.

There are many people in society who do not accept this cruel way of killing targeted female fetuses but it is very sad that they do not want to comment on this issue.

These silent observers know that this mentality of society is taking India towards a major social disaster.

These silent observers are aware of their friends and relatives urging for prenatal sex determination but they do not have courage to prevent them from doing this inhumane things.

There are so many such silent observers who know the persons participating or involving or in real sense doing this crime of prenatal sex determination followed by illegal termination of pregnancy…but these Silent Observers are keeping mum.

In older post we have posted an oath called as self talk…Such activity may help Silent observers to speak out their inner feeling…a day or another…but soon.

In short

Silent Observers are Silent Killers…

Nobody is serious on issue of illegal targeted termination of female infant.

Except very few…Persons from Social organizations or Health related organizations are not serious on Mission Save a Girl in India

Many of such persons are just highlighting the fact and need of prevention of prenatal sex determination followed by illegal termination of targeted female infants…but sad part is nobody is coming with effective practical approach and the concrete solution.

It is not that these great persons are trying to minimize the illegal activity of female infanticides but no one is serious on issue…As apart from prenatal sex determination act (PNDT)…Social awareness campaign is not on their radar yet.

Until and unless the issue of saving girl is included in all social activity…just highlight of issue will not be sufficient.

In country like India where there are so many problems and issues which are neglected…very soon or later this issue of decreasing female sex ration will also be in corner of drawer behind the dust.

Since there in nothing like Mission save a girl in India till the date…need is to start such activity…but nobody is serious.

The Health related persons talking loudly on malnutrition in children are silent on this major issue of female feticides.

‘Family with Two Kids’…ham do hamare do… is the silent culprit behind female infanticides…major challenge in Mission save the Girl.

हम दो हमारे दो...The campaign of family planning program is successful due to mass campaign only…and majority of family have accepted two kids and also one kid family norm.

But along with it thought of two daughters or one daughter norm of family is beyond the mentality of society…rather they want first child as boy and then second as girl or boy.

Contrary if first child is girl then second child has to be boy…no girl at any cost…as they have adapted two child family norms…they can not take for third chance.

So by hook or crook after first female kid…second child has to be born should be boy only…so there is no choice apart from knowing the sex of infant and terminating infant if it is of female sex.

So unknowingly हम दो हमारे दो (Two Kids Family) has crated this cruelty of killing female infants…

Till the mentality of Family of one or two kids irrespective of boy or girl child will be well adapted by society…Mission Save the Girl will have to be continued.

What should be the aim of Mission Save the Girl?

Aim should be to create volunteers motivated and devoted and willing to become good counselor irrespective of their education and social status.

Aim of the mission should be to involve all social organizations actively and effectively.

Aim of the mission should be to make it like war against mentality of social culprits.

Aim of the mission should be to reach the last person in society and to make him aware of sin of killing female infants before birth.

Aim should be to eradicate vanshacha diva वंशाचा दिवा... like mentality of society in Toto.

Who should lead this Mission?

When it comes to discussion on this issue…after discussion on mentality of society…vanshacha diva…(वंशाचा दिवा...) male dominance…female innocence…finally the finger is pointed out towards medical profession…Doctors doing prenatal diagnosis followed by termination of female fetus.

So to save nobility of our profession…Doctor should lead this Mission

But unfortunately Doctors are very reluctant on issue and not even acting as backstage also…keeping mum with out any comments.

This is very sad part of this Mission.

If Doctors not reacted in positive way in short time they may be treated as main culprit for decrease in female sex ratio.

So it is our sincere request to all persons in medical profession…Please come forward and leads the Mission.

Practical approach to ‘Mission save the Girl’

Let us Be Practical

Without wasting time on theoretical discussion on the topic, we should all have to look for effective practical approach... To Save the Girl

During any activity related to Doctors or any health related program conducted for any age group of people in general…organizers should include activity of Mission Save a Girl…

Activity like...

1. Start with simple oath in local language…one simple format is given below

2. Then ask decided experienced person to give short talk on the importance of Mission Save a Girl.

3. With appeal to all to join Mission…this activity should be concluded in five minutes only.

4. Timing of this activity should be decided smartly so as to give effective impact.

5. Such activity ideally should not be as the last part of session except in the program related to same issue…or it may look like patch up typed…unrelated topic…and people are anxious to leave may not take the issue seriously.

We need more and more trial and error before coming to finalize the standard format…but why not to start just now as a trial.

We do many activities in such programs just for formalities irrespective of its meaning and importance…why not to include activity which is in real sense important.

People in general and all other non government organizations will also start similar activities followed by involvement of Government.

We should not wait till Government authority do it obligatory to do certain activity and then we are supposed to do as compulsion.

Media though taking concern of this issue will become more serious on the issue…and bombarding the message of this mission…through media will be the most effective weapon of this mission.

To summarize the campaign should be like dealing with crisis…as we all accept that girls if not saved now will be resulting into major social crisis very soon.

Oath or Self Talk like activity should be the soul of Mission save the Girl.

Each and every individual…irrespective of age, educational standard or social status must be given this type of health periodically. Such oath should become like self talk like activity for majority of people…then only Mission Save the Girl…will be effective remarkably.

Here is one format of such oath…

I do respect the birth and presence of female.

I will not involve directly or indirectly in the act of female infanticide.

And I also prevent my relatives and friends from doing female infanticide.

I take such oath.

I do respect mother as a God.

In simple Marathi…

स्त्रीच्या जल्माचा व स्त्रीच्या अस्तित्वाचा मी आदर करतो

प्रत्यक्ष किंवा अप्रत्यक्षरित्या स्त्रिभ्रून हत्येमधे माझा सहभाग असणार नाही


तसेच माझे आप्त व मित्र परिवार यांना स्त्रिभ्रून हत्येपासून परावृत्त करेन


अशी मी शपथ घेतो.

मात्रु देवो भव !!!!!